Latina Magazine 2017-06

STAY CONNECTED TO YOUR CULTURE

BOUNCE BACK & TAKE CHARGE

MAY/JUNE 2017 / EIZA GONZÁLEZ / LATINA.COM

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Sun is Out. Skin is In. Summer’s Fashion Must-Haves

Off-The-Shoulder Tops – ”These sexy yet comfy tops are my go-to statement piece that I pair with everything from frilly skirts to denim shorts.”

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Influencer, mom and fashion expert, Verky Baldonado, shares her favorite summer styles that show off the ultimate fashion accessory: your skin.

The Ultimate Accessory – “Smooth, moisturized skin is essential to any summer style. I love Olay Ultra Moisture Body Wash because it locks in moisture without feeling sticky.”

Flirty Dresses – “What is summer without fun and flirty dresses? They are an absolute must!”

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Bright Bold Colors – “During the winter season, I wear darkhued outfits, so when the summer rolls around I want to burst with color that looks fabulous against my moisturized, glowing skin!”

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Vol. 21, no. 3

In Every Issue 12 Masthead 16 Behind the Cover 18 Eb-session 20 Beauty News 22 Letter From the Editor 24 Style Wars 26 Five Things You Should Know 28 latina loves 30 Tea With T 32 Trending 34 Inspiring Latina 104 We Got This

Features

82

PRETTY COOL

90

On ThE bRink & OVERWhELMED

Here’s everything you need to know about postpartum depression.

94

PURPLE REinA

In this moving excerpt from the most beautiful, by Mayte Garcia, Prince’s first wife, shares blissful and heartbreaking moments about life with his royal badness.

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pHotograpH by ALVIN keAN woNg

S w e at e r , pa n t S , a n d e a r r i n g S p r a b a l g u r u n g ; S t y l i n g b y J a S o n r e m b e r t; H a i r b y n i k k i n e l m S ; m a k e u p b y r o k a e l l i z a m a .

Former telenovela star Eiza González is ready to take over your summer—and Hollywood—with her new film baby driver.

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37 GET-SUMMER READY

Try these pro moves and tools to get prepped and primed for beach season.

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40 HIGH NOTES

Buy these spicy and floral fragrances for mami and papi.

42 MExICALI COOL

Steal designer Beatrice Valenzuela’s beautiful style secrets.

44 REBEL BRIDE Skip the traditional gown and veil routine and go for cool and unexpected designs.

62 TONE UP IN 30 DAYS

Lyzabeth Lopez has the secret to a flat belly and a better boot-ay.

64 YOU’RE A NEW

STEPMOM, NOW WHAT?

Navigating a brand-new family isn’t easy. Here’s how to stay cálmate, loving, and sane.

46 BACK TO THE FUTURE

66 JEFA FROM HELL

48 SIZZLING SUMMER

68 BOUNCING BACK

LIFE IS GOOD

PRESS PLAY

A totally modern twist on crimped hair and neon colors. playa, please! Get chic with these sexy swimsuits and edgy accessories.

57 CAPTIAL OF COOL

Mexico City is all about art, design, food and cultura.

60 BAJA BEAUTIFUL

Turn your home into a surf shack with colorful and textural pieces.

60

Working for a horrible boss? Manage up with these useful tips.

Facebook’s famous COO on the power of resilience.

73 AT THE MOVIES

It’s time for superheroes, fast cars, and intergalactic butt kickin’.

78 GIRL POWER

Isabela Moner shines in Transformers.

80 PRISON BREAK

Our favorite Litchfield ladies spill all the jailhouse tea about this season’s Orange is the New Black.

THE LATIN KITCHEN 99 ¡FRESAS FRESCAS!

Delish recipes for sweet desserts and delicious drinks.

102 EASY DOES IT

Host an amazing summer party with help from chef Marcela Valladolid.

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ROBYN MORENO Editorial Director

Alvin KeAn Wong

(“Pretty COOl,” PAGe 82)

Alvin Kean Wong, born and raised in Singapore, picked up his first camera at the age of eight. An after-school pastime quickly became his means to explore, understand, and travel the world.

“Eiza was a true professional—she knows how to be confident and natural in front of the camera.”

EBELINDA ANTIgUA Creative & Fashion Director

Managing Editor TAIIA SMART YOUNg Deputy Editor CORINNE gRIFFITh-COLE Senior Editor JAMIE KATz Food Content Director AMANDA CARgILL Beauty & Fashion Assistant AShLEY JIMENEz Editor-at-Large VERKY ARCOS BALDONADO Contributing Copy & Research Editor

ShELLEY WOLSON, TRACEY hOPKINS Art & PhOtO Deputy Art Director FRANCI BERMAN Photo Editor SUSAN LEVIN

diGitAl

AnA MAnticA

(“On the brink & Overwhelmed,” PAGe 90)

Ana Mantica is a Miami-based writer and editor who covers health and lifestyle. Her work has appeared in several Latino-based websites and print publications.

“Every new mother can be at risk for postpartum depression. The more we talk about it, the less stigma it will have.”

Senior Editor PRISCILLA RODRIgUEz Politics & Culture Editor RAqUEL REIChARD Digital Designer/Photo Editor WESLEY gONzALEz Social Media Editor BELKIS CALVO Video Producer/Editor CONNIE ChAVEz Editorial Assistants NIChOLE FRATANgELO,

LAURA hERRERA TORRES, DANIELA gALVEz COntributOrs

ANA MANTICA, gINA ROBERTS-gREY interns

SARAhI CASTILLO, ChRISTY PINA

ebby AntiguA

(“Pretty COOl,” PAGe 82)

Ebby Antigua is the Creative Director and Fashion Director of Latina magazine and latina.com. Ebby creates our awardwinning covers and advises on designs across all Latina platforms.

“Eiza was fun, down to earth, and happy, happy, happy!”

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Corinne Griffith-Cole is a beauty obsessed editor who hasn’t met a lipstick or spa treatment she won’t try. She shares her fave finds in every issue.

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This magic wand, meant to mimic a fine-tooth comb, hits and lengthens every. single. lash. The waterproof formula keeps your fringe on fleek, even in the pool. CoverGirl Waterproof Total Tease Mascara, $10, drugstores

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Summer Lovin’ Happy Summer everyone!

I am thrilled to have mexicana actress Eiza González grace our cover. She talks about love, loss, and the power of Latina sisterhood in her story on page 82. Speaking of being strong, I am so proud of our feature on Latinas and postpartum depression. Did you know Latinas suffer from PPD 30 percent more than nonLatinas? We tell you how to spot it and how to treat it on page 90. Bri Luna, our inspiring Latina also poignantly recounts her own motherhood journey which helped her reconnect to her ancestors and curandera roots. Read her magical story on page 34. In a Latina exclusive, Sheryl Sandberg opens up about finding strength and resilience after losing her husband unexpectedly in “Bouncing Back,” on page 68. It’s a heart-opening and enlightening read. Beach season is here in all its glory, yee haw, so check out our gorgeous “Get Summer-Ready” guide on page 37 where we showcase the best skincare and swimwear to get you body confident and glowing! And because there is nothing more confident and beautiful than being self-made, this summer we are partnering with our friend, Nely Galán, and The Adelante Movement to find the next self-made star! If you have launched a business and want to be mentored by Nely and featured in the September issue, then submit your story and photo to www.latina.com/selfmade. Here’s to a strong, confident, and sexy summer!!

As always, #WeGotThis ROBYN MORENO Editorial Director MY fAvE suMMER fRAGRANcE is This ROll-ON ThAT sMElls likE cOcONuT, sAlT AiR, AND suNscREEN! $48; pirettebeach.com

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For more Latina Style Warriors, go to latina.com/ stylewars.

I AM LATINA // FRESH FASHION

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From fresas to palm trees, create your own fashion paradise using this season’s hottest prints—and Brasileira Carmen Miranda as your muse. By ASHLEy JIMENEZ

OUR TREND EXPERTS

JennIFer PuenTe Stylist @StilettoConfessions “I’m all about vibrancy and flare, which is exactly what fashion icon Carmen Miranda exuded.”

FernanDa romero Singer/Actress @fernandaromeroo “Carmen Miranda paved the way for Latinas to embrace their natural curves and culture.”

THIS MONTH’S READER WINNER ClauDIa FelIx Lifestyle Blogger @ThePennyCloset_ “Bold colors and accessories turn heads.”

TARTE Rainforest of The Sea color Splash Lipstick in Daiquiri, $21, tartecosmetics.com

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VICky PenalIze Style Expert @fashionbyvicky “From fruits to tropical prints, this style is perfect for summer.”

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Carmen Perez, aT The Day WiThOuT a WOMaN PrOTeST iN NeW yOrk CiTy

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JuStice Win: in March, immigration judge James Nugent allowed Sara Beltran-Hernandez, an undocumented immigrant from el Salvador, who has spent 15 months in a detention center in Texas, to post bail. Beltran-hernandez’s story gained national attention this year after u.S. immigration and Customs enforcement agents removed the 27-year-old from her hospital bed, where she was scheduled to receive potentially lifesaving treatment for a brain tumor. amnesty international launched a campaign on behalf of the mother of two, who faced domestic and gang violence and death threats in her home country. an immigration judge must still decide if Beltranhernandez—who lives in New york with her mother and sister and has begun medical treatment—can stay in the u.S.

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s g n i Th You Should Know BY Raquel ReichaRd

KnoWledge iS poWer: Since the start of 2017, 501 young people have gone missing in Washington, D.C.—most of them black and Latina girls. While the city’s Metropolitan Police Department reports that as of press time, 22 of those cases have been solved, the lack of attention around the missing girls, from both the media and law enforcement, reveals a major problem: authorities don’t treat youth of color who vanish with the same urgency as they do missing white juveniles.

repreSentation MatterS: a new animated short film is sharing the story of immigration and border-crossing through a child’s perspective. Caracol Cruzando is about an eightyear-old Costa rican girl named anais who has to make the toughest decision of her life: if she will bring her best friend, her pet turtle, on her journey with her. The film, which aims to humanize an issue that has become highly political, is written and directed by Pamela Chavez, a queer Costa rican illustrator and animator who made a similar trek in her youth.

Word of the Month: While women like Laverne Cox and Carmen Carrera have introduced transgender topics into many of our homes, there is still some confusion about vocabulary. recently i used the word cis, short for cisgender, in an article, and a colleague asked me if it was a typo. it was not. Cis is a term for people whose gender identity matches the gender they were assigned at birth, unlike trans, which denotes someone whose gender identity falls outside of the one they were given at birth. as an example, Cox is trans, and her Orange is the New Black castmate, Diane guerrero, is cis.

FoR the latest on cultura and justicia, Follow latina’s Politics and cultuRe editoR on twitteR @RaquelReichaRd.

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Catch us outside all month long—always with a popsicle or glass of vino in hand. #treatyoself

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El Programa Bring Your Own Phone requiere un teléfono compatible desbloqueado, un Kit de Activación y un plan de servicio Straight Talk. El usuario podría necesitar cambiar la configuración del Nombre de Punto de Acceso en su teléfono. Por favor tome nota, si usted hace el cambio a Straight Talk, es posible que la cuenta que tiene con su proveedor actual esté sujeta a cargos por parte de este. Un mes equivale a 30 días. Favor de referirse siempre a los Términos y Condiciones del Servicio más recientes en StraightTalk.com.

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Got issues with sex, love, family, friends, your ex’s new girlfriend, or your nasty boss? Talk to me, hermana. By taiia smart young DEAR, T: My hermana swears that not wearing underwear has helped her feel free. Is it safe, hygiene-wise, to go commando? —CAPTAIN UNDERPANTS

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if liberation is what you seek, opt to go sans underwear at bedtime. it can be quite refreshing to feel a cool breeze the way mother nature intended against your bare butt, um, skin in the privacy of your own home. Before you completely abandon bikini bottoms and boy shorts, know that your pretty panties absorb sweat (especially cotton ones) and prevent bacteria from sliding its way onto your genitalia. this is especially important if you plan to rock short skirts while commuting via public transportation in nYc or riding a rented bike in miami. DEAR, T: My bestie has some serious family problemas that have caused her to become angry and bitter. She lashes out at me and hates on everything that I do. Is it wrong to end our friendship while she’s going through a rough patch? —GOOD FRIEND some friendships have a short shelf life, especially if the relationship is toxic, abusive, or there are trust issues. here’s what you should know: hurt people— hurt people. so don’t be her emotional punching bag just because she’s got issues. she’s begging for a large dose of “act right.” if you’ve already told your amiga that she’s being bitchy and supercritical and she hasn’t changed, then you don’t need my permission, or anyone else’s to “break up” with her. this could be a temporary split (until she’s able to own her truth) or a permanent one. if she’d like to be down with your #squadgoals, then she’s gotta act the part. A proud Afro-Latina, Taiia Smart Young writes about relationships, celebrity shenanigans, and teen and women’s empowerment. She also wrote Famous! How to Be the Star of Your Show: A Teen Girl’s Guide to Embracing Her Fabulous Self (available on amazon.com).

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Bringing Bruja Back

With her hugely popular social media following, Bri Luna aka The Hoodwitch, shares her love of eclectic spirituality while inspiring young women everywhere to rediscover their culture—and themselves. by robyn moreno HeR owN eNcHaNtmeNt: I’m not

a traditional healer in any sense. I work with Reiki and healing crystals and stones, as well as Tarot. I’m very intuitive. I also teach meditation and have a holistic skin care business. My practices may not be for everyone, but I want to share part of my journey so I can help people tap into what’s being presented to them and what’s inside of them. There’s so much more happening than what we can see with the eye.

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MY Background: mom is mexican and my dad’s family is from new

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p h o t o g r a p h s : m i c h a e l s . p i e r c e ; n a i l a r t i s t: p e k a g r ay s o n .

Growing up, I was always interested in magic, but I thought my family’s practices were oldfashioned. When I got pregnant with my son, my intuition turned all the way up. Having a baby connected me to my ancestors. That’s when I started learning and incorporating more traditional methods of healing.

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BEAUTY // FASHION // STYLE //

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Face The problem: Peach Fuzz The fix: Feel like everyone’s staring at your ’stache when you’re sipping your poolside margs? There’s a gentle way to wipe away facial hair from your cheeks, jawline, lip area, chin, and forehead. “Dermaflash uses an edge specially designed for the delicate skin on a woman’s face to simultaneously exfoliate and remove peach fuzz,” says Dara Levy, the tools’ inventor. “It also helps even skin tone, allows skin care products to better penetrate, and creates a perfect canvas for makeup, allowing it to go on more evenly.”

Feet

The problem: acne The fix: Back or butt acne can make even the most confident chica shy away from a teeny bikini. To get your strut on, Roff UrBaN SKiN rX eVeN TONe recommends washing daily with a sulphurNiGhT TreaTMeNT $68, urbanskinrx.com based cleanser—which kills acne-causing bacteria and heals inflamed pimples—and wiping the area once to twice a day with •> skin clearing pads containing glycolic and PhiLOSOPhy salicylic acids. “The butt and back have the CLear dayS thickest skin on the whole body,” says Roff, ahead OVerNiGhT rePair SaLiCyLiC “so you might want to get a professional aCid aCNe TreaTMeNT PadS, exfoliation treatment every few months.” $42, philosophy.com

•> Panarea Couture’s Valentina One Piece Seventy, $280, panareacouture.com offers a silhouetteslimming pattern and tummy control.

The problem: Cellulite The fix: Everyone we asked said creams and scrubs aren’t particularly effective. There is, however, a lot of buzz around Cellfina, an in-office procedure that treats the rubberband-like connective tissue underneath the skin on thighs and bums. (When fat pokes through those bands, they become weakened, or stretched and create dimpling.) “Cellfina is the gold standard in long term cellulite correction,” says plastic surgeon Dr. Julius Few. “It is minimally invasive, performed under local anesthesia in less than an hour, and the results can be seen immediately.” Price: $3000–$6000 per session and results are said to last at least two years.

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diaMaNCeL diaMONd FiLe FOr CaLLUSeS, $38, sephora.com

•> Guerlain Terracotta Jolies Jambes, $60, sephora .com blurs leg imperfections and adds a bronze tint.

The problem: sandpaper-like soles The fix: If you haven’t been getting regular pedis all winter (no judgment), start by sloughing off dry skin, right in the shower, says Danielle Candido, Morgan Taylor Lacquer and Gelish Lead Educator. A good scrub with essential oils will exfoliate rough skin, smooth calluses and hydrate. “Invest in a quality foot file with two different grits— course/fine or medium/fine—and use it once a week while showering,” says Candido. Post-shower, dry your feet well and massage with a shea butter foot lotion for at least 60 seconds. “The warmth created by the massaging helps the emollient penetrate.”

•> For toes that are less than pedi-perfect, deep, bold shades are more forgiving than pastels and neutrals. Morgan Taylor Nail Lacquer in Woke Up This Way, $9, morgantaylorlacquer.com

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The problem: Hair The fix: If you’re still waxing or shaving, consider getting laser hair removal. Clear + Brilliant pélo removes hair and cools the skin to cut down on pain. “The treatment time is short, taking less than one minute for underarms or the bikini area, and less than 30 minutes to treat full legs,” says Tania DaSilva, Brand Manager at Solta Medical. It’s safe for all skin tones and types but if your skin is sensitive, or you are prone to hyperpigmentation or scarring, let your technician know. Price: from $150 for the bikini area to $1600 for full legs (five to six sessions are recommended). To tackle pigmentation marks from old ingrowns and bumps, try using a serum or cream with fading and exfoliating ingredients like kojic acid and retinol, says Roff.

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The problem: Rough, dry skin The fix: Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize, says NYC plastic surgeon, Dr. Mark Schwartz. “Products containing hyaluronic acid are especially helpful since [the molecule] binds moisture—up to 1000 times its weight in water.” Rachel Roff, founder of Urban Skin Rx, recommends using a rich body lotion with 10-20 percent glycolic acid every day or every other day, depending on your skin’s sensitivity. “Glycolic acid exfoliates dead skin and reveals a smoother, more even skin tone. It is also the best ingredient for controlling Keratosis Pilaris, those small, unsightly bumps that are common on the backs of arms and thighs.”

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Designer Beatrice Valenzuela shares her beauty and style secrets for living la vida buena. By RoByn MoReno

One look at Beatrice Valenzeula’s IG feed and you instantly pick up her sexy, earth goddess vibe. Photos of her eponymous bohemian line of colorful sandals, silver jewelry, scalloped swimsuits, and rustic-chic clothing appear alongside gorgeous snaps of her kids, inspo, and travels. “My style is 100 percent Latina,” says Valenzuela, a native Angeleno

who lives in Echo-Park with her two children and artist hubby. The stylist-turneddesigner counts actress Shailene Woodley and singer Sia as fans, and her coveted line is sold globally. Her mantra for success: “Don’t limit yourself. Think LARGE. Laugh loud! Love passionately. We only have this one try in life.” Wise woman, indeed.

Beatrice’s Belleza Picks

rAncherA Blouse, $226; riding skirt, $236, beatricevalenzuela.com

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“I am obsessed with beauty products! I prefer a mix of natural and pampering, anything to make me look gorgeous and feel sensual. I love baths and masks that are relaxing and transporting.” ~

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WE DREAM IN COLOUR Stellar Earrings, $125, wedreamincolour.com

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GIUSEPPE ZANOTTI Mistico Swarovski Crystal Tie High Heel Sandals, $1,295, bloomingdales.com

a leG up! A chic tea-length style means ease down the aisle.

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FERVOR MONTRÉAL Bella Silver Rings, $133, fervormontreal.com

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STELLAR Metallic Moon Lipstick in Disco Moon 03, $22, sephora.com

SMITH & CULT Nail Polish in Shattered Souls, Gay Ponies Dancing in the Snow, and Vegas Post Apocalyptic, $18 each, smithandcult.com

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JOIE Adriana Glitter Ankle Strap High Heel Sandals, $278, bloomingdales.com

JOHN MASTERS ORGANICS Sweet Raspberry & Orange Body Scrub, $20, johnmasters.com

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’80s makeup was all about excess and glamour, says Lijha Stewart, Director of Artistry and Education at Make Up For Ever. “The look was strong and ultrafeminine with androgynous undertones.”

“wHat i love about ’80s Hairstyles is everytHing was all about texture,” says Frédéric Fekkai stylist Jonathan De Paca. “Women’s hair was a fashion accessory all by itself!”

ESSIE NAIL POLISH IN MIAMI NICE, $9, essie.com

tHe look: Big bangs, tons of volume, crimping, thick, high ponytails, and all kinds of curls. make it modern: “In the ’80s, the hairstyle was more important than the haircut,” says De Paca. “Today we emphasize that a great cut is key for style and shape.”

tHe look: “Full coverage foundation, strong brows, contoured cheeks—in pinks, reds, and plums— and bright shadows in frosty opals, plums, and blues. Plus lots of winged black eyeliner and pink or red lips,” says Stewart. make it modern: “Pull back on foundation coverage and opt for modern, fresh skin instead,” advises Stewart. “Use softer blush shades and play up either eyes or lips, not both.” Tip: If you go a little overboard with a bold shadow, you can soften and add dimension to it by blending a neutral brown shade into your crease.

CHANEL Bangs are more understated, and side ponys are sleek and low. To create or amp up texture, crimping is cool again. Keep the look fresh by raking your fingers through your waves to soften and finishing with a moveable (not bullet-proof) MARC JACOBS hairspray. O!MEGA LASH

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MAKE UP FOR EVER ARTIST ROUGE CREME LIPSTICK IN MAGENTA PINK, $22, makeupforever.com

VOLUMIZING MASCARA IN ALL ABOUT YVES AND PEACOCK, $26 each, sephora.com

Dust off the scrunchies and stock up on technicolor shadows—beauty looks from the raddest decade are like, totally trending. With an updated twist, of course. By corinne griffith-cole

OPI NAIL LACQUER IN NO FAUX YELLOW, $10, loxabeauty.com

ORLY NAIL LACQUER IN SURFER DUDE, $9, orlybeauty.com

BED HEAD LITTLE TEASE 1” TOURMALINE CERAMIC CRIMPER, $30, ulta.com URBAN DECAY JEAN-MICHEL BASQUIAT 24/7 GLIDE-ON EYE PENCIL IN POST PUNK, $20, urbandecay.com

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capital of cool D.F. Might be a MiX oF CrowDs anD big City bustle, but beneath it all lies CharMing Colonias where historiC Meets hiP via art, Design, FooD, anD Culture.

P h o t o g r a P h: F M P t- C D M X .

BY amanda Cargill

Palacio de Bellas Artes

mexICO CITy IS en FueGO. On the travel trend scale, wherein one equals “Don’t bother” and ten equals “Get there before the college kids come,” Mexico City is currently an 11. Why? Mexican artists like Frida Kahlo and Rufino Tamayo are figuring prominently in everything from films to museum exhibits (L.A.’s LACMA has been expanding its collection of Latin American art since 1997 when it was gifted more than 2,000 works by mostly Mexican modernists); Mexican cuisine is

the second most popular “ethnic” food in the U.S.; direct flights to Mexico City are quicker and cheaper than flights to cities in Asia and Europe; and the emphasis on immigration and trade during the 2016 presidential election made Mexico a hot topic. But the real reason for the city’s emergence is simple: It’s cool. Once merely an afterthought for sun-seekers en route to Cabo and Cancún, Mexico City is now trendier than all its neighboring beach hotspots combined. may/june 2017

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La COnDeSa, a vibrant enclave marked by

colorful homes and tree-lined streets—

avenida amsterdam the most notable among

them—buzzes with activity, in restaurants and cafes during the day and clubs and bars at night. contramar, famous for its rapid-fire service and celebration of the Mexican sobremesa tradition—it officially closes at 6 p.m., but patrons often remain seated until well past midnight—is one of the neighborhood’s best-loved eateries.

Merengue con Fresas, Contramar

El Palacio de Hierro

Las Alcobas Luxury Collection Hotel, Polanco

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Prendes Restaurant

Outside MODO

In pOSh pOLanCO, Mexico City’s elite

collect in world class restaurants after a workday spent negotiating business deals or a Saturday spent shopping at the city’s upscale mall, Palacio de las Hierras. (There’s a heliport on Palacio’s rooftop and one of the city’s oldest restaurants, Prendes, on its ground floor.)

On paSeO De La ReFORma, tourist-filled taxis en route to the Zocalo and

la casa aZul mix with school buses trundling towards the antHroPology museum and commuters dashing to work. Dotted with statues depicting

Mexico’s most historic figures and pulsing on any given day with parades, protesters, and traffic jams, this enormous thoroughfare is the beating heart of Mexico City, a central artery where 21st century challenges meet the simultaneously laid back and urgent energy that is unique to Mexico City.

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The Workout:

cardio: To lose fat and maintain muscle mass (ahem a booty), go for short cardio bursts every two days. try this 20-minute treadmill hiit (high intensity interval training) sprint: ■ Start with a 3-minute warm up jog. ■ from minutes 4-10, perform moderate intensity sprints for 45 seconds to one minute with 30 seconds of rest in between. ■ Once you hit the 10-minute mark, increase your speed and sprint for 20-30 seconds with one to one and a half minutes of rest in between. finish out the workout this way. Weights: Plain old squats using only your body weight won’t do much to boost your bum, says Lyzabeth, so you’ve got to lift. her top 5 exercises for an amazing butt. Try doing these twice a week. 10 Deadlifts (110-300 lbs) 10 Kneeling cable kick backs (50-80 lbs per leg) 10 hip thrusts (110-350 lbs) 10 Walking lunges with glute kick back (50-110 lbs) 10 glute/ham machine raises (45 lb plate) *These are Lyzabeth's suggested weights, but start out with what you're comfortable with.

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LIFe IS GOOD // LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

you’re a new stepmom, now what?

You’ve got a great new hubby and—bonus—a brand new family. While it’s all very exciting, the reality of navigating a delicate stepmom-stepkid relationship can be daunting. Here’s how to stay sane and make it all work. By AnA MAnticA

How to figure out your new role First, be realistic— trying to live up to a fantasy insta-happy family will only lead to disappointment. Think of yourself like a loving aunt in your stepkids’ life. Get to know them better before you get married, say stepmoms who’ve been there.

Finding a shared interest is one of the best ways to connect. You also want to set expectations with your partner, suggests a Rachelle Katz, a NYC psychotherapist who specializes in stepfamilies, and is author of The Happy Stepmother. There’s a

fine line between helping out and taking on the role of stepfamily chef, maid, nanny, etc. Plunging in and trying too hard will only leave you exhausted and resentful, she warns. In all probability, these efforts won’t make bonding any easier.

How to handle discipline—or not Your stepkids will test you, whether out of misbehavior or defiance. While you might be tempted to parent, don’t. The rule of thumb is: “Leave the primary disciplining to the biological parents,” Katz advises. Now, this doesn’t mean you should put up with rudeness or bad manners. You have the right to be treated with respect in your own home (and your partner should make sure that happens). Take the time to talk about parenting styles with your partner and, as a family, create some basic household rules that everyone can abide by and some fair consequences when those rules aren’t followed. As for the “you’re not my mom!” fight? Teddie, a stepmom from New York responded once with: “Technically, you are correct. I did not give birth to you. But, just as I decided to be with your daddy, I am deciding to be your stepmom.” Her stepdaughter never brought it up again.

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Developing a cordial relationship with your husband’s ex and stepkids’ biomom is critical to your marriage and sanity. Teddie says that making it clear to her stepdaughter (instead of biomom) that she is not her mother also made the relationship with her husband’s ex-wife easier. What about a drama mama? Never, ever bad-mouth her. Period. If the bio-mom is intrusive and offensive, “disengage,” Katz suggests. “Have only as much contact as is necessary.” And be like Switzerland when it comes to any discussion between your partner and his ex over child support, discipline, or otherwise. You can support him from the sidelines, but don’t get in the middle of it. When it becomes tumultuous (and it will), don’t take it personally, and don’t feel pressure to blend, Katz adds. “Blending isn’t a prerequisite for a stepfamily to function successfully. It’s an ideal that is difficult for most stepfamilies to achieve.” The Brady Bunch down the block may look picture-perfect, but don’t worry, even they deal with the same problems.

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A bAd MANAgER CAN hAvE A lAstiNg iMpACt ON YOuR CAREER. A recent Gallup State of the American Manager report found managers are responsible for up to 70 percent of inconsistent employee engagement. Since staying plugged in is key to long-term success, we asked career experts how to “manage up” so you can stay on the right path, even when you’re not getting the mentorship or motivation you deserve.

The Queen or King Bee There’s no room for anyone else in this “star’s” universe. “Chances are, this boss denigrates others or ignores their contributions, no matter what the person does,” says Lois A. Krause MBA, a human resources consultant at KardasLarson.

Managing this manager: First, manage your own expectations. “You probably won’t be showered with consideration from this type of boss,” says Krause. Make sure to copy all applicable team members and

managers when turning in work or suggesting ideas. That way others will be aware of your contributions. The Ghoster A hands-off management style can leave you looking—hoping— for guidance or feedback. “You could even miss out on having a sounding board that helps you stay on course, ” says Christina Austin, founder of ExecBrands LLC, an executive career branding and image consulting firm.

Managing this manager: Schedule meetings to update your boss or ask

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for advice on key items, suggests Austin. Meanwhile, Krause suggests, “Get on your boss’s calendar at the beginning of a project, when it is delegated. Then initiate your own follow-up at logical intervals to ensure you receive the support needed to complete the task.” The Meddler This boss believes he needs to have his hand in every pot. And that nothing can be accomplished if he’s not hovering above everyone. “All this micromanaging usually leads to the

boss making mistakes and then assigning blame to others,” says Krause.

Managing this manager: Reframe errors or missteps. “Privately explain to him that you are unsure of the best course of action because your previous experiences involved doing X but they’ve suggested doing Y,” suggests Krause. This will usually trigger an about face and your boss switching to your suggested plan. “After time, this manager will respect you and come to trust your judgment.”

The Pleaser This boss will say yes to everything, even projects that are undeliverable, says Heather Monahan, a business expert and Chief Revenue Officer for Beasley Media Group, Inc. It can make the whole team look bad.

Managing this manager: Offer to help pinpoint and execute what is possible when tough requests come through. This way your boss won’t feel like a failure, and the team won’t burn out. Eventually, upper management will figure out The Pleaser has a key member of her team, and when she is reassigned or terminated, you’ve set yourself up as the logical replacement, says Monahan.

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BOuNCING BACk When lean in author and Facebook COO, Sheryl Sandberg’s husband died suddenly leaving her a widow with two young kids at age 45, she thought the grief would never end. In her exclusive interview with Latina, she talks about her new book option b, and how her family found the resilience to laugh, love, and live again. BY roBYn moreno

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SS| In those early foggy days after Dave’s death, I felt both overcome with grief and isolation. I felt like my life was easy before. I drop my kids off at school, everyone says “hi.” I come to work, everyone’s friendly. But after Dave’s death, people were looking at me like I was a deer in headlights. So I wrote what I would’ve wanted to say and I thought “I’ll never post this.” But when I did post it on Facebook, it broke open a dam. People started saying, “how are you today?” And I felt so connected to other people. A mother shared that she lost one of her twins and was trying to find the strength to give the surviving twin a great life and another woman posted saying “I lost one of my twins, too, let’s talk.” People who lost spouses and children shared, and everyone was saying the same thing, which is “we’re all in this together.” The grief was still there, but sharing my experience made me feel connected to people I knew, and to people I didn’t know.

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Latina| On your FB page and in Option B you’re very candid about the death of your husband, Dave. Why did you decide to share your story?

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“DeSpITe heArTBreAk, we CAN STILL LOve, AND we CAN STILL FIND jOy.”

SS| One thing I learned that I didn’t know before Dave’s death, is how important it is to acknowledge the pain—the elephant in the room. When someone didn’t say something to me about Dave passing, I felt alone. They didn’t give me the opportunity to talk about Dave and our life together, and I wanted to talk about him. It helps keep his memory alive. Also, if someone is grieving instead of just saying “if there’s anything I can do, let me know” do something specific. Bring food, offer to watch the children or come over and have coffee. It shifts the burden off the grieving person.

L| Do you have any tips for people who have had smaller setbacks? SS| Whether you lose a job, love, or a dream, it’s important to be kind to yourself. Sometimes the things we lose are our fault, but we still have to be kind to ourselves. Also, know that even though your grief feels permanent, it’s not. It does get better. L| You wrote a beautiful passage in your book about attending a wedding and having fun after Dave’s death. then you burst into tears because you felt so guilty. Can you talk about how you and your kids were able to bring joy back into your lives? SS| You have to work on it. One of my favorite quotes in the book is, “Joy is discipline.” My friend gave me this great idea that I could write down three moments of joy a day. To this day, a lot of them are pretty small, how my coffee tastes, etc., Those moments are so important and because I’m going to write them down at the end of the night, I notice them during the day. Otherwise, they just pass, like when my daughter smiles or my son gives me a hug. We have to give ourselves permission to feel joy. L| Why was it so important for you to share your story with Latina? SS| My book has three parts: One part was my story, one part was the research, and the third part was stories of resilience, all kinds of different hardships and all kinds of different backgrounds. In the book I mention a millennial “Lean In” Latina circle ! founded by a woman sheryl and dave were named Guadalupe who marrIeD fOr got pregnant when she 11 years. was 16 and went back and finished not only high school but college. So now she encourages other

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Latinas to go to college. For us to be resilient and find joy we must find strength together, in community. That was the most inspiring thing for me working on the book.

L| Why did you decide to write Option B? SS| One of the ways we grow from trauma is to find meaning. Now, I wouldn’t choose the growth. I would give it all back to have Dave back. But Dave was the most giving person, and he’s not here to do that. So if this book can help anyone else, I think it honors the life he led. I think in many ways this book was a love letter to him. L| How are you and your family doing now? SS| On the days it’s hard, it’s hard. I had what my kids and I call a “cry break” yesterday. I was traveling back from vacation with my kids and I just started crying. My daughter looked at me and I said, “I’m sorry I’m crying,” and she said, “Don’t say you’re sorry mommy. You can always cry to me.” I try and find ways to be grateful. I look at my daughter and I say, “She is still alive, and I am happy. I am lucky for that.” I conclude the book with the quote from the writer Anna Quindlen who said we confuse resilience with closure. I still miss Dave and always will, but in Option B I want people to know that despite heartbreak we still have options. We can still love, and we can still find joy.

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L| What advice do you have for someone who has a friend or family member who is suffering a loss?

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LOWRIDERS // MAY 12 At first glance, it may seem like Lowriders is simply about East L.A.’s near-spiritual car culture, but a closer look reveals that Danny (Gabriel Chavarria), a talented young street artist who sees his city as his canvas, is caught between his old-school papi (Demián Bichir), his ex-con brother (Theo Rossi), and the need for selfexpression. Eva Longoria is caught in the middle trying to get her hubby to connect with their sons. Her message: When it comes to your kids, you never stop trying. t

WONDER WOMAN // JUNE 2 Rumors of superhero fatigue are highly exaggerated. For proof, check out the highly anticipated Wonder Woman, starring Gal Gadot. Before WW became a fearless leader, she was an Amazon princess training to be a warrior on a paradise island—until an American pilot (Chris Pine’s Steve Trevor) crashes near her homeland and spills the tea about conflict happening in the rest of the world. Look for Dr. Poison (Elena Anaya) to keep things interesting with her penchant for chemical warfare. q

ALL EYEZ ON ME// JUNE 16 Fans have been waiting forever for the último biopic on prolific rapper, poet, and actor Tupac Shakur. The cast includes scene-stealing veterans like Danai Gurira (Walking Dead) as his mom, Afeni, and newbies who hold their own, especially Demetrius Shipp Jr. as the raw talent who became a cultural icon and larger than life after his death in 1996. Look for Lian Amado (seen here) as Angie Martinez aka The Voice of New York and Dominic Santana as the menacing Suge Knight.

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BABY DRIVER // JUNE 28 After Baby Driver killed it at the SXSW festival, the powers that be upped this action thriller’s release date from August to June. Ansel Elgort (as Baby) is behind the steering wheel in the getaway car with an interesting crew of criminal misfits in tow, including Jamie Foxx (as Bats) and our gorgeous cover girl Eiza González (as Darling). When Baby falls for a beautiful blonde, he’s suddenly eager to ditch his delinquent ways but his crime boss (Kevin Spacey) forces him into another lifethreatening heist. t

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SPIDER-MAN: HOMEcOMING // JULY 7 Peter Parker (Tom Holland) is desperately trying to balance being a “normal” high school teenager and being the friendly neighborhood Spider-Man. At first, everything is going smoothly. Young Peter is back at Aunt May’s house and benefits from the wisdom of his been-there-done-that superhero mentor Tony Stark (Robert Downey’s Iron Man). But when terror strikes in the form of The Vulture (Michael Keaton), Spider-Man cannot just sit back and watch his nemesis wreak havoc on civilians.

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This generation’s Chuckie returns! ANNABELLE: cREATION // AUGUST 11 She’s baaaaack! After the original grossed $257 worldwide at the box office, it made sense to scare fans with another supernatural thriller in the franchise. This time around, a dollmaker (Anthony LaPaglia) and his doting wife (Miranda Otto) welcome Sister Charlotte (Stephanie Sigman) and several girls from an orphanage into their home. Sounds heartwarming, right? It is until everyone becomes the target of the dollmaker’s possessed creation.

summer reaDInG FOr yOur prIma BEcAUSE OF THE SUN // BY JENNY TORRES SANcHEZ Dani Falls, 17, is merely tolerating life in suburban Florida when her emotionally abusive mother is violently killed. As if losing a parent wasn’t enough, her life is turned upside down when she’s sent to live in New Mexico with an auntie she never knew she had. To escape the awkwardness of their relationship, Dani takes long walks under the desert sun and meets Paulo, a movie loving Mexican-American who looks out for her. As their relationship builds, Dani gets closer to her aunt and discovers the truth about her mami’s past—and the beauty in forgiveness. t

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With her first major film role, Nickelodeon star, Isabela Moner, is a badass on and offscreen.

Say hello to your next BlockBuSter PrinceSS! aS the gutSy izzy, starring opposite Mark Wahlberg, Isabela Moner is bringing the definition of girl power to the screen in Transformers: The Last Knight. “[Izzy] has a lot of character,” the Ohio-born peruana notes. “She has no need to depend on other people. She is fiery and an overall badass.” Much like her character, Moner is a self-proclaimed “sassy,” empowered young woman. “I always loved the feminist movement and the historical women that have helped lead us on the path we’re on.” When it comes to female empowerment, the 15-year-old actress believes it’s all about accepting who

you are and knowing that’s enough—and standing by your fellow women. “It’s about staying by your sisters,” she says. But don’t get her started on the “social media feminists” who post inspirational quotes yet bash other women. “Why are you claiming to be this type of person, but not practicing what you preach?” Moner asks, regarding the posers. “It’s hypocritical. A true feminist is someone who loves rather than hates. Someone who sees the equality rather than a contrast.” She continues, “People are completely naïve of where the actual [inequality] problem is coming from. It’s much deeper than just guys objectifying women.” So what’s Moner’s advice? “People have to step back from situations and observe. Just listen. Explore. You’ll find a new sense of respect for others when you put yourself in someone else’s shoes.” Now that’s a girl’s girl!

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On the new season Thirteen episodes take place in 72 hours…. The prisoners have taken over. We’ll see the dynamics of that change. We will also see how it’s more focused on the establishment itself and how the structure at Litchfield has affected these women.

On Latina stereotypes Flaca is definitely not stereotyped. She’s a Latina, first generation, her accent is from the East Coast, and she loves The Smiths and listens to ’80s music…. Everyone is layered: We have the white crew, the African American crew, the racist crew—we have every kind of crew because that’s reality.

On Gloria’s evolution This season she starts to feel the weight of her responsibilities in the prison. We’re going to see her unravel a bit—which I really appreciate—in a way that is both tragic and beautiful.

On gaining a new perspective on prison life Last November, we visited detention centers and we were able to help one individual be released and [avoid being] deported and that was gratifying…. I’m more involved in organizations, influencing kids and helping the youth.

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On “glorifying” prison life We’re shedding light on issues such as prison reform, LBGTQ issues, women’s rights issues…. People don’t think [deeply about prisoners]. We think they’re bad. They deserve it and that’s it. What the writers have done is given these women a real voice, complexity, and real issues. They’re not just prisoners—they’re mothers, daughters, lovers.

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Mexican-born actress eiza GonzÁlez has already found faMe on her hoMe turf; now the forMer telenovela star is settinG her siGhts on hollywood. in her new filM, BaBy Driver, out this suMMer, she Goes head-to-head with MeGa stars JaMie foxx and Kevin spacey. but with her pinup-Girl Good looKs and MeGawatt talent (did we Mention she sinGs too?), eiza’s More than up for the challenGe. in her own words, here’s why she’s our new favorite face. AS TOLD TO PRISCILLA RODRIGUEZ PHOTOGRAPHS BY ALVIN KEAN WONG

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“I lost my father very young, but not young enough to not be aware of what was goIng on. my father and I were very close. I fell Into a very dark place and I couldn’t deal... I started eatIng excessIvely and gaIned a lot of weIght and I was very sad... It was a hard experIence but I came out of It. we’re human. you don’t have to be ashamed of beIng broken.”

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“I’ve been lucky enough to travel around the world and to lIve In dIfferent places: MexIco cIty, argentIna, new york... that opened My MInd a lot. when I left MexIco I really valued how beautIful and full of lIfe our culture Is. It blows My MInd— whenever you’re stuck In one place you thInk thIs Is how the world Is and then you walk out and you see there’s so Many layers to everythIng. there’s no rIght or wrong to anythIng. everyone has a dIfferent poInt of vIew. It’s beautIful.” Top, pant, lace undies: John Galliano

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Overwhelmed? What you need to knoW about postpartum depression

When mom isn’t happy

“It’s normal to experience the ‘baby blues’,” says Maria A. Oquendo, M.D., chair of the Department of Psychiatry in the Perelman School of Medicine at the University of Pennsylvania. Nearly 80 percent of new moms will go through a period of uncontrollable crying, sadness, and anxiety following a baby’s birth. Understandably so—exhaustion, lack of sleep, and hormonal surges can all take their toll. But in most cases, the symptoms go away on their own after a week or two.

When it’s more than the Just the blues

Unlike the “baby blues,” postpartum depression (PPD)—which affects approximately 13 percent of new mothers—doesn’t go away on its own and the symptoms are more severe. “The biggest difference is how long the symptoms last and how hard they make it for you to

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function,” says Patricia Harteneck, Ph.D., Seleni Institute senior psychologist. The mood swings, deep rage, and anger are more intense, and can set in a couple of weeks after childbirth and anytime within the first year. “If they last longer than two to three weeks, it’s time to talk to your health-care provider,” she advises. While rare, new moms can also develop something even more serious known as postpartum psychosis, a condition that may cause psychotic symptoms like paranoia, delusions, and hallucinations.

Why it’s not your fault

“Because we idealize motherhood in our society—and especially in the Latina culture—women feel it is their fault if they experience anything but bliss and good fortune. That is simply not true,” Harteneck says. That’s why it’s important for people to understand that PPD is a biological response. “After childbirth, your body experiences a dramatic drop in estrogen and progesterone, which leads to chemical changes in the brain that may trigger mood swings,” Oquendo explains. Sleep deprivation leaves new moms even

more vulnerable. Women with a history of depression or who lack a supportive network, or face other life stressors such as financial hardship are at even greater risk.

Why you should speaK up

PPD is very treatable. “More ob-gyns are in tune to it, screening for it, and providing treatment,” Oquendo says. The treatment is much like treatment for other types of mental health disorders—most commonly antidepressants, psychotherapy and support groups, or a combination. Sadly, there’s a sense of shame and stigma that keep women silent and, consequently, fewer than half don’t seek treatment and only five percent of Latinas initiate postpartum mental health care. If left untreated, it can last for months or even longer, and create a ripple effect, interfering with mother-baby bonding and putting an emotional strain on fathers and children. One thing is certain, says Dr. Harteneck: “It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It does not mean that you are a bad mother or that you do not want your baby. Any woman can experience it.”

P h o t o g r a P h s : o P e n i n g Pa g e , t h i s Pa g e : i s t o c k .

While the birth of a child is a joyous time for many women, being a new mom comes with an unexpected range of emotions. And it’s not all rainbows and roses.

What a neW mom Can do

make healthy life choices. Try to get adequate rest, eat healthfully, and get some exercise such as taking your baby for a walk. set realistic expectations. Don’t pressure yourself to be superwoman: Do what you can and leave the rest. make time for yourself. Get out of your PJ’s and leave the house. Meet up with a friend for coffee, or do something else you enjoy. avoid isolation. Talk with your partner, friends, or family about how you’re feeling, or join a mother’s support group. lean on friends. Take people up on their offers to help you with chores, errands, or babysitting!

hoW Can friends and family offer support?

insist on helping out. Offer to babysit so mom can take a nap or a long hot shower, run her errands, or do chores around the house. Get her outside. Help make her feel human. What does she enjoy? A yoga class? Mani/pedi? Movies? Arrange to take care of the baby and book the appointment for her. cook for her. Bring your friend something hearty and homemade like lasagna or arroz con pollo. The last thing new moms want to do is cook. Be present. Sometimes just being

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there and listening is the best TLC. recommend resources. Encourage her to talk to her doctor or join a support group. Do the legwork for her and call Postpartum Support International to find a group nearby (800-944-4773).

*Jennifer’s story

At 39, I found myself working fulltime as a lawyer and single. I had never been a baby-crazy person. Then, when my brother had his first child, something switched in me and I thought “I love this little person and she’s not even mine.” I still hadn’t met Mr. Right, but I didn’t want to miss the chance to have children simply because I wasn’t in a relationship. I decided to do IVF and froze my embryos. A year later, at 40, I did my first transfer of the embryos. That was unsuccessful. A year and a half and eight IVF attempts later, I became pregnant at 42 with twins (a boy and a girl). Full-term. Healthy. Perfect. I brought my babies home and initially everything was fine. I had a baby nurse to help me. But as the weeks went by, I began to feel overwhelmed. I had trouble breastfeeding. I felt disconnected. Any momentous event like the first time they rolled over, I felt nothing. I couldn’t eat, or leave my apartment. When they were three months old,

What it looks & feels like Sadness, irritability, trouble sleeping, feeling overwhelmed, mood swings, changes in appetite, crying

hoW to CoPe Lasts a few days to a week or two after baby is born and go away on their own

PostPartum DePression

Severe mood swings and anxiety, withdrawing, intense anger, difficulty bonding with baby, shame and guilt

Usually develops within the first few weeks, but may begin later within first year; if it lasts more than two weeks, seek help

PostPartum Psychosis

Confusion, hallucinations and delusions, paranoia, obsessive thoughts about baby, sleep disturbances, attempts to harm self or baby

Seek immediate treatment

I took them back home to meet my family. While everyone was oohing and ahhing, I kept thinking “what did I do? I’m stuck with them for at least 18 years and I can’t give them back.” At the same time, I felt guilty because I had chosen to bring them into this world and had gone to such great lengths to have them. During the visit, I went for a run and fractured my ankle. That was the last straw. When I returned home, for several months I was stuck in a boot up to my knee, on crutches. I was alone with no family, my baby nurse quit, and I plummeted into total despair. There were days when I couldn’t get out of bed. I lay there crying. I couldn’t hold a conversation. When I finally returned to work, I would stare blankly at my computer screen for hours unable to process the words or the tasks at hand. I was catatonic. When they were four months old, I finally decided to seek help from my ob-gyn and her nurse immediately recognized the signs of PPD. I began seeing a psychologist twice a week and taking antidepressants. After months of trying different medications, the veil slowly began to lift. If I felt even five minutes of joy, I considered it a milestone. I started developing a bond with my babies and finding pleasure in spending time with them. In part, falling into the depths of despair and getting back up has made me a more relaxed parent. Stronger. I recently moved back to my hometown. The kids are turning four in May and we’re happy. I regret that PPD took the first 9-12 months of my children’s life from me.

how to get help

Once you’ve identified the signs of PPD, these groups offer support. PostPartum suPPort InternatIonal offers a worldwide network of expert and peer support at postpartum.net. PostPartum Progress provides answers to FAQs, support groups, treatment facility listings, and stories of other moms, postpartumprogress.com. selenI InstItute raises awareness, provides public programs, funds research, and advocates for moms, seleni.org.

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When Prince died on April 21, 2016, folks clamored for their 15 minutes of fame to discuss his life and legacy, but one voice was noticeably silent. In her memoir, The Most Beautiful: My Life with Prince, Mayte Garcia, Prince’s first wife, shares what it was really like to love (and lose) his royal badness. They met and became fast friends when Mayte was a globetrotting 16-year-old belly dancer and he was already a rock star—the pair married in 1996, when she was just 22 and he was 37. In this book excerpt, Mayte (seen here with her adopted daughter Gia) shares scenes from their relationship, from the blissful to the heartbreaking. p h o t o g r a p h b y Fa b i e n b e n h a m o u

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ON THE POWER OF BELLY DANCING

When I belly danced, I never saw it as a dance of seduction: I saw it as a dance of empowerment. That’s what I try to give women now when I teach them to belly dance: that sense of self-confidence that can come from within. No compliment can give it to you. No number on the scale. No label in your clothes. It radiates from a woman’s core, and it’s absolutely her own. I think that’s what made prince notice me.

ON ALWAYS BEING PRETTY

On one day off I arrived wearing sweatpants, and prince made me go home and change. I was annoyed and humiliated, but he knew how to get me laughing again when I came back in spandex. I did understand where he was coming from. he never left the house unless he was done up pretty. “Marilyn Monroe never left the house without full makeup.” he told me, as if no other explanation was needed. Sneakers were for basketball, period. he always showed up for rehearsal in high heels, makeup, good hair—the works. There were no jeans, ever, around paisley park in my era… Knowing this, I felt a cold shiver down my spine when I read in the Minneapolis StarTribune that when his body was found in the elevator at paisley park, “prince was wearing a black shirt and pants—both were on backward—and his socks were inside out.” This made no sense to me. The sheer irony of it broke my heart all over again.

ON PRINCE’S ROMANTIC SIDE

This was my first real boyfriend, so I was tripping on all the emotional ecstasy most girls get out of their system in high school. prince loved that I was so in love with being in love. I’d never had my heart broken, so I was open and unjaded. Any old trick in the romance handbook—a candlelit bubble bath, rose petals on the sheets, a sexy handwritten letter—none of the novelty had worn off for me. I was thrilled with all the small gestures of affection, and he enjoyed being appreciated.

ON DRUG RUMORS

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In all the years we were together, I never actually saw prince doing drugs. he didn’t want me to see it. I’m sure he knew what my reaction would be. I didn’t drink or do any kind of drugs, and I didn’t want that in my life. I knew prince loved port wine, but he wasn’t a big consumer of anything except sex and music, as far as I knew. he had a black bag that always seemed to be close at hand—like a gym bag, not too man-purse-y—but the contents were pretty tame: candy, vitamins, makeup, a bible, and a big wad of cash. he had incredible amounts of money, and he always seemed to have plenty on him so he could send people off to get whatever he needed.

ON THE PRIVATE POSTWEDDING CELEBRATION

gianni Versace had generously sent me a selection of dresses for the big reception, and I chose a white strapless number with the greatest turn-around skirt ever made. It was gorgeous. We got out of the car, and my husband carried me over the threshold on his shoulder like a sack of coffee beans. The house had been completely redone to make it our home. he took me by the hand and showed me every room… upstairs in the anteroom outside the master bedroom, there was a crib. My husband went in and cued up a song he’d been working on: “Let’s have a baby.” Too bad that gorgeous Versace dress never made it to the party.

ON PRINCE’S LETTERS AND CASSETTE TAPES

he and I fell into an easygoing dialogue that covered every conceivable topic. The tone ranged from silly to spiritual. he welcomed the opportunity to educate me on the music that meant the most to him—James brown, The Staple Singers, Chaka Khan, Sly and the Family Stone—and in turn, I taught him about ballet and Middle eastern folkloric tradition. It was rare for more than a couple of days to go by without a call, and I regularly received cassette tapes in the mail. Along with letters and drawings, many of which I still have. The ones I don’t have were destroyed. They were burned, along with everything that was mine or that reminded him of me or of our son. In some sad, painful moment, he had it all burned as if fire could cauterize this deep wound that he couldn’t close.

ON THE BIRTH OF THEIR SON

I don’t know how to describe the look on my husband’s face. pure joy. pure love. pure gratitude. I’d seen his face when he stood in front of a stadium filled with 48,000 screaming fans. I’d seen his face as he scored platinum albums and received the highest awards in his industry. I’d seen him experience the ecstasy of creative genius. None of that compared to the look I saw on his face in this moment, when he became a father. And then they held the baby up in the glare of those harsh lights…he made no sound. My heart called his name. Amiir. The pure elation on my husband’s face turned to pure terror. [Amiir was born with a genetic disorder that causes skeletal and systemic abnormalities. he died six days after his birth.]

ON THE DIVORCE

According to the divorce settlement, the house [in Spain] and its contents went to me in lieu of a cash settlement. I never asked for alimony. In the beginning and at the end, everyone wanted me to sign a prenup, and he said no. Naturally, his people tried to get him to do a prenup. he wasn’t having it. “This is my soulmate,” he told them. “We’re not getting divorced.” May/June 2017

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¡Fresas Frescas! Summer’s bounty is on display with sweet dessert and drink ideas from Marcela Valladolid’s new cookbook, Casa Marcela: Recipes and Food Stories of My Life in the Californias. BY AMAndA CARgiLL may/june 2017

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preheat oven to 350°f. coat two 9-inch round cake pans with nonstick cooking spray. in bowl, sift together flour and baking powder. set dry ingredients aside. in bowl of stand mixer fitted with whisk attachment, whisk egg whites on medium speed until stiff peaks form, 5 to 6 minutes. with mixer running slowly, add 1 cup sugar and mix until combined. Add egg yolks, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Add vanilla and mix well to incorporate. Add ½ cup whole milk, alternating with flour mixture in three additions, starting with milk and ending with flour, blending well after each addition. divide batter evenly between prepared cake pans and bake until golden and cake tester inserted into middle comes out clean, 18 to 20 minutes. Remove from oven, transfer to wire rack, and let cool in pan 20 minutes. Run knife around edge and invert cake layers onto wire rack. Let cool completely. meanwhile, combine remaining 1 cup whole milk, condensed milk, and evaporated milk in blender and process until smooth. Refrigerate

until ready to use. combine heavy cream and remaining ½ cup sugar in medium bowl. using an electric mixer, beat cream until soft peaks form. set aside. once cake is completely cooled, using serrated knife, trim top of each cake to completely flatten it. (save trimmings for another use.) using a fork, poke top of both cake halves all over. place first cake layer on platter and slowly pour half of milk mixture on top, making sure it gets completely absorbed. spread 1 cup whipped cream on top, then top with sliced strawberries. top with second cake layer and pour remaining milk mixture on top, making sure it gets absorbed. spread remaining whipped cream over top and around sides, pushing spatula in forward motion to remove any excess whipped cream. (make sure you don’t cover the cake completely because you want to see some cake behind the cream.) Refrigerate overnight before serving. decorate cake with edible flowers, if desired. makes 10 to 12 servings

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Left and right: Cookbooks and Mexican heritage inspire Marcela.

MArceLA VALLAdOLId,

the Tijuana-born TV host and cookbook author beloved for her modern Mexican cooking and girl next door good looks, is so chill you’d never know she’s raising three kids while running a culinary empire out of her San diego home.

Does the connection to San Diego—where you live now—have an impact on Tijuana’s food?

We asked her about motherhood, Mexican food, and how to host a spectacular summer party. Here’s what she had to say. BY AmAndA CArgill You grew up in Tijuana. What makes the food there different from other regional Mexican cuisine?

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In Tijuana, we have cuisine from every region of Mexico and cooks from all over cooking in all of the restaurants, so there is a huge influence from sources like the Yucatán, Oaxaca, and Puebla. We have a little bit of everything so we’re more permitted to experiment.

Let’s talk entertaining. What makes a good host?

The secret weapon is to figure out what you need so you can chill, because you, as the host, set the tone, and if it’s negative in any way, your guests can tell. Did your parents host a lot of family and friends while you were growing up?

Yes. We really are a family that likes to entertain and we all agree on what makes a great dinner: good food, good drinks, good music, good lighting, and good company.

At home in the garden with sons Fausto and David.

What are your music and lighting recommendations?

For me, candlelit is the only way to have a dinner. And I like to have Luis Miguel playing in the background. What about kids at dinner parties?

Yes. I think it’s necessary to educate kids about food and let them help with cooking and cleaning. That interaction is important for them.

Your house is incredible. Do you feel like you hit the lottery?

I do. There are days that it’s really hectic around here, but when it’s sundown and I walk through the hallway to the dining room and the birds and the crickets are chirping, I feel this sense of peace, like everything is coming full circle.

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Absolutely. Those of us that were raised in Tijuana have so much access to San Diego. I was crossing the border every day when I was a kid, and that back and forth has a huge influence on the cuisine. There’s this great blending, a great exchange.

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My biggest lesson learned from interviewing Facebook coo sheryl sandberg (page 68) is that we must choose joy. in our ever-busy lives, we are used to being stressed. anxiety is our default. Last week, a dear friend called all freaked out. she had just returned from a trip to Machu Picchu and was feeling the back-to-reality blues. she panicked about everything that was WroNg with her life: Why was it taking so long to close on her new apartment? Maybe she shouldn’t have quit that job she hated! Will her yearlong game plan really work out? i listened to her rant, then said, “You just came back from a dream vacay; you’re buying a gorgeous apartment; and you have gigs lined up for the next year. Everything is good. it’s okay to be happy.” For my friend, and for most of us, the other shoe is always about to drop. our brains are hardwired that way. in the past, we worried about dinosaurs eating us, and now we have crap like cancer and terrorism to keep us on edge. so what can we humans do in the face of the unknown? We can enjoy the goodness while it’s here. We can celebrate the little wins, whether it’s a stranger’s kindness or basking in the sun with friends this summer. Life can be scary; it’s true. But it’s also beautiful; that is equally true. Like sheryl, who survived an unimaginable loss, we can and should, always savor the simple joys. i’m in! Who’s with me? ROBYN MORENO

P h o t o g r a P h: i s t o c k .

CHOOSING JOY

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